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For My Mom

My mom's feeling left :-( out because I only mentioned George's parents in the last post. I'd been thinking about what I learned from my parents' marriage, too, but didn't know if I should write it. But here goes, the lesson I take from them and which might help some of you: stick together through all the stressful years and in the end you'll be able to enjoy each other. They've been married 34 years, as much of an accomplishment as 51 of course. I'm happy for them, they're happily retired and takin' it easy now!
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At my grandparents 45th wedding anniversary party, my grandpa stood up and proposed a toast:

"Here's to 42 wonderful years"... everybody chuckled politely as my grandma corrected him and said "We've been married 45 dear..." He winked and raised his glass and said "anyone who's been married this long knows that not every year is wonderful".

He's right. There will be hard times when you wonder what you've gotten yourself into. Yet you hang in there. Which is why I'm celebrating my 23rd in another month.

So that is indeed a good lesson for all of us.
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